青少年存在的问题
存在的问题:青少年时期是人的一生之中最灿烂、最明亮的黄金时期。这一时期是幼稚与成熟、烦恼与希望共存,并直接关系和影响一个人一生成败的关键时期。随着我国进一步的改革开放和国民经济的飞速发展,人们的生活节奏明显加快,社会因素造成的心理压力明显加强,很多青少年在成长过程中出现了心理脆弱,承受力差的问题。
原因:现在的家庭基本上是独生子女,他们从小一帆风顺,心理承受能力比较差。而且由于青少年主观上对事物的认知还存在着片面性和模糊性,再加上外界环境影响,容易形成错误的人生观和价值观或做出一些过激的事情,造成不可挽回的损失。
例子:一名初中生,因与同学打架,被派出所训斥后想不通,企图服农药自杀,幸而被家长及时发现进行抢救,才幸免悲剧发生。青少年特有的天真和幼稚,使他们对复杂的现实生活缺乏应有认识,一旦遇到风险和挫折,心理防线容易崩溃、产生失落感。心理上的脆弱,导致了行为上的盲目。
解决办法:
一是家长和老师应该因势利导,在心理方面对孩子加强辅助,正确把握学生的心理和行为动向,化消极因素为积极因素。
二是家长在教育孩子的时候,要注意方式、方法,和孩子多进行感情交流,互相理解,加强沟通。 Problems: young people's lifetime period is the most brilliant, brightest golden age. This period is childish and mature, worry and hope coexist, and directly related to and influence the success or failure of a critical period of human life. With China's further reform and opening up and rapid development of the national economy, it is noticeably accelerated pace of life, psychological stress caused by social factors significantly strengthened, many young people growing up there in the psychological vulnerability, the problem of poor tolerance. Reason: Now the family is basically a child, they took the smooth, relatively poor mental endurance. And because young people's subjective perception of things, there are still one-sided and ambiguity, coupled with the external environmental impact, easy to form the wrong outlook on life and values or made some radical things, causing irreparable damage. Example: A junior high school students, for fighting with fellow students, after being reprimanded the police station to figure out clothing pesticide suicide attempt, but fortunately was discovered in time to rescue their parents before they escaped the tragedy. Of adolescent innocence and naive, so they lack the complex real-life understanding of the event risks and setbacks, the collapse of psychological line of defense is easy to generate a sense of loss. Psychological vulnerability, leading the blind behavior. The solution: First, parents and teachers should capitalize on the trend in the psychological aspects of the child to strengthen assistance, the right of students to grasp the psychological and behavioral trends turn negative factors into positive ones. Second, when parents educate their children, pay attention to forms, methods, and exchange feelings many children, mutual understanding, enhance communication.