如何和陌生人沟通_英语作文

Ways of Taking to Strangers

Up until a year ago I saw the world as a place where very few doors opened for me. At first I thought it was due to bing extremely introverted. But as time went on, I started to straggle with making friends I started talking to strangers on my college campus and in the city because I was tried of staying on the sidelines. It was scary for a naturally timid person like me, but I decided to fight the fear.

Great things come to those who are willing to risk rejection and put

themselves out there. After two months of doing this, Imade some great friends, simply by starting conversations. After of these interactions allowed me to understand how to engage with people. For example, I learned that tone and body language are more important than saying the right thing. Through my experiences, I learned that people are usually friendly and happy to talk to you.

I feel happier knowing that I have the power to talk to whomever I want to.More opportunities arrived by networking with others.

Here are some ways I learned about turning strangers into friends.

Firstly, say the magic word: "Hi ". It sounds so obvious, but it's the big barrier. You have to use that magic word to start a conversation. I noticed that people are welcoming after you break the ice. It's not something that everyone wants to do because it takes some curage to go uo to someone you're never met before and start a conversation. However, more people are more welcoming than we generally expect. When you encounter someone who isn't, remember, that someone else will be. Secondly, detach yourself from the outcome. When you don't expect any outcome, you won't be disappointed or offered if someone doesn't respond to you. What's more, tolerate rejection. If they reject you, it does not mean they do reject you. It is about where they are ai mentally, so do not take it personally. If they passed up on the opportunity to connect with you, then they missed out on something great. Forthly, don't mind what strangers thinking about. This is your life, and you have the right to talk to whomever you wan to talk to. Not everyone is that open. Allow them to be how they are and think how they do, without letting it challenge your courage. Fifthly, if you feel the fear, do it anyway. One of the best ways to combat the fear is to do it

repeatedly.Push through the fear and it will start to feel more naturally. Finally, practice.Don't worry if you seem a little awkward or aggressive at first. If your intentions are authentic, you will come across that way more and more each time you try.

These tips are my ways of talking ro strangers.