爱情观英文调查报告

Students ’ attitude to being in a relationship in

Beihang University

Students ’ attitude to being in a relationship in Beihang University

1.Abstract

Love is human ’s eternal theme and life in university is a unique

experience in people ’s social activities.So love in university becomes a meaningful topics and this paper is commissioned to study the students’ attitude to being in a relationship in Beihang University.Beihang has its own feature.Firstly The distribution of majors in Beihang determines the uncoordinated proportion(male is much more than female) in sex,which means there must be some poor guys left.Secondly undergraduates,postgraduates and doctoral students lives in the same campus.So based on the facts we are aiming at figuring out main factors of students’ psychology and behavior and help students comprehend the reason being in a love and lead to a correct conception of love. Key words: attitude of love,be in a relationship,university students

2.Method and procedure

We use the form of questionnaire in a questionnaire website.In this questionnaire we pick up fifteen questions about relationship.From these questions we can study peoples' attitude to being in a relationship.

A total of 48 individuals participate in this survey.They are all from Beihang university and covering different degrees,including undergraduates,postgraduates and doctoral students.But the amount of the undergraduates and doctoral students is quite small,we just focus to postgraduates.

After stating these questionnaires,we use excel to make charts to make our investigation more clearly and vividly.Through the statistics we

get our conclusions.Then we analysis the result and have recommendations

3.Presentation and results

We get 48 effective pieces of questionnaire,mainly for postgraduates,in which male accounts for 70.83% and female accounts for 29.17%. The questionnaire contains seven parts,16 questions and each part can reflect some aspect of students’ conception about love.

Analysis of partners:In these choices，56.76% of female choose then lively and cheerful kind.Maybe they these kinds of character can make them life more pleasing.The second reason may be the male are born with masculinism and the lively kind can meet their desire.female who choose the mature and stable kind account for 68.18%，which means most female are becoming mature too and the boy with mature character means security to them.Comparing to choosing the handsome and romantics during puberty,they are more reality and coincidence with life.Meanwhile numbers of girls who choose romantics are o,which reflect that the romantic boy are less acceptable than these mature boys.

Analysis of motivation:From the results，27.08% of students start a relationship just for enrich their life ，eliminating loneliness.They may have no clear target and lost interesting in university .So they focus to being in a love to purchase happiness and kill time.Some students have no clear purpose to start a relationship.Their motivation is experience

love and they also don't have plan anything for future.

Analysis of consumption in love:Most cost of love are from their parents because they have no livelihood and income.Also most couples consume 500 yuan above per month,in which we can see with the increasement of life level,cost in love are increasing too. 45.83% of them think boy should pay for spending in the influence of Chinese culture and masculinism.They may be embarrassed with girls paying for cost.But quite amount of students choose A-A,which may reflect the equality between men and women in modern society.

relation between love and study:18.75% chose love while 5% try to deal with the relationship between love and learning as much as possible which reflects they more sensible and they can keep a balance between them.

Psychological influence to lovelorn:It turns out that after a lovelorn most people have the same behavior,like frankly face with it or sad for a time,seldom of them will let off their sadness by some crazy way.Many of them will talk to their friends.That may be the best way for us,while seldom will let it develop.

4.Conclusion

Through the questionnaire we can study that the students' value of being in a love is becoming sensible and they focus more self-cultivation,character which becomes an important standard to

choose a partner.Most people can balance the relation between study and love.Facing lovelorn,they can take correct ways to go out of the shadow of brokenhearted.But quiet amount of students don't have a pure motivation .They just regard love as an experience and have no clear plan.

5.Discussion and recommendation

For students they should have a correct understanding of love and life.Then they should Set up motivation of being in a love.Once they fall in a love,learning how to Balance study and love is also important.Finally please prepare for the elapse of love and know how to deal with your sadness of lovelorn.

Also school play an important role in this.They perhaps should guide students establish correct ideal of love and establish a good environment of campus culture.