关于肢体语言的英语演讲

Eye contact is the most obvious way you communicate. When you are looking at other person, you show interest. When you fail to make eye contact, you give the impression that the other person is of no importance. Maintain the eye contact about 60% of the time in order to look interested, but not aggressive.

Facial expression is another form of nonverbal communication. A smile sends a positive message and is appropriate in all but a life-and-death situation. Smiling adda warmth and an aura of confidence. Others will be acceptive if you remember to check your expression.

Your mouth gives clues, too, and not just when you are speaking. Mouth movement, such as pursing your lips or twisting them to one side, can indicate that you are thinking about what you are hearing or that you are holding something back. The position of head speaks to people. Keep your head straight, which is not the same as keeping your head on straight, will make you appear self-assured and authoritative. People will take you seriously. Tilt your head to one side if you want to come across as friendly and open.

How receptive you are is suggested by where you place your arms. Arms crossed or folded over your chest say that you have shut other people out and have no interest in them or what they are saying. This position can also say, "I don't agree with you." You might just be cold, but unless you shiver at the same time, the person in front of you might get the wrong message.

The angle of your body gives an indication to others about what's going through your head. Leaning in says, " Tell me more." Leaning away singals you've heard

enough. Adding a nod of your head is another way to affirm that you are listening.

Posture is just as important as your grandmother always said it was. Sit or stand erect if you want to be seen as alert and enthusiastic. When you slump in your chair or lean on the wall, you look tired. No one wants to do business with someone who has no energy.

Control your hands by paying attention to where they are. In the business world, particularly when you deal with people from other cultures, your hands need to be seen. That would mean that you should keep them out of your pockets and you should resist the urge to put them under the table or behind your back. Having your hands anywhere above the neck, fidgeting with you hair or rubbing your face, is professional.

Legs talk, too. A lot of movement indicateds nervousness. How and where you cross them tell others how you feel. The preferred positions for the polished professional are feet flat on the floor or legs crossed at the ankles. The least professional and most offensive position is resting one lag or ankle on top of your another knee. Some people call this the "Figure Four." It can make you look arrogant.

The distance you keep away from others is crucial if you want to establish good rapport. Standing too close or " in someone's face" will mark you as pushy. Positioning yourself far away will you seem standoffish. Neither is what you want, so find the happy medium. Most importantly, do what makeds the other person feel comfortable. If the person with whom you are speaking keeps backing away from you, stop. Either that person needs space or you need a breath mint.

目光接触是最明显的方式沟通。当你看着其他的人, 你表现出兴趣。当你没有眼神交流, 你给人的印象, 其他的人是不重要的。保持目光接触大约60%的时间为了看感兴趣, 但不咄咄逼人。

面部表情是另一种形式的非语言沟通。一个微笑发送一个积极的消息, 是适用于所有但一个生死攸关的情况。微笑温暖和的光环加入信心。别人会有用如果你记得检查你的表情。

你的嘴给了线索, 也不仅仅是当你说。口运动, 比如抿嘴或扭曲他们的一面, 可以表明你正在思考什么你听到或者你正在拿着东西回来。

主管职位的人说话。保持你的头直, 这是不一样的保持你的头在直线上, 会让你显得自信和权威。人会认真对待你。倾斜你的头向一边, 如果你想显得友好和开放。

如何接受你的建议, 你把你的手臂。双手交叉在胸前或折叠说你已经关闭其他的人, 没有兴趣或他们在说什麽。该职位也说, “我不同意你的观点。“你可能是冷的, 但除非你颤抖同时, 面前的人你可能会得到错误的信息。

你身体的角度指示他人对你到底是怎么想的。倾向于说, “告诉我更多。“和喜欢你听够了信号。添加一个点头你头上的是另一种确认您正在收听。

姿势是一样重要的你奶奶总是说这是。直立或坐或站, 如果你想被视为警报和热情。当你在你的椅子或苗条衰退在墙上, 你看起来很累。没有人想做业务的人没有能量。

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