赞美男生的话

赞美男生的话

人们都说女人是用耳朵来生活的，赞美是女人生命中的阳光。其实，男人也一样，他们一样喜欢听到他人对自己的肯定和赞美，这会让他们有一种价值感，并由此充满自信。可以说，恰到好处的赞美是打在男人身上的一剂强心剂。

People say that women are with ears to life, praise is a woman in the life of the sun. In fact, man is the same, they like to hear others to his affirmation and praise, this will give them a sense of value, and so full of confidence. Can say, be just perfect compliment is playing on men as a cardiotonic agent.

通往男人内心的道路，必定要通过男人自尊心这一瓶颈。要知道，奉承可以让你走遍天下无敌手，当然也是对付男人的化绵掌。

To a man's heart road, must through the man of pride of this one bottleneck. You know, flattery can let you through the invincible hand, also against the men of cotton palm.

成功的男人

A successful man

介于传统社会对男性角色的定位――挑家立业者，使得男人非常在乎自己在别人心目中的形象，他的自尊心和他的工作、事业密切相关的工作，任何人对他工作做出评价都会让他反应敏感。因此，无论男人从事的是精彩的职业还是普通的劳动，他都希望你对他的事业成就喝彩。

Between traditional society on male roles -- pick their home, make a man cares about his image in the eyes of others, his pride and his work, career is closely related to the work, any one work evaluation will let him sensitive. Therefore, no man is in wonderful occupation or general labor, he wants you for his career achievements.

正因为男人期待的是你对他个人事业成就的关注和认可，所以那种用在任何人身上都可以的泛泛溢美之词，“你很有能力或魅力”这类，只能让他感觉你是在敷衍，最恰当的方式是对他的一些个人特色进行赞美。一位成功的商人曾说：“有那么多的人整天对我说，你现在的成就很让我羡慕，我都听腻了，锦上添花的奉承让我一点也不觉得激动，倒是：‘你的成功是因为你在产品定位方面有着超人的识别能力’这类的话，让我着实兴奋了许久。”

Because men look forward to is you to his personal achievements in the cause of the attention and recognition, so that any of them are general words," you have great ability or charm" in this class, only let him feel that you are perfunctory, the most appropriate way to some of his personal characteristics in praise of. A successful businessman said:" there are so many people who say to me, you are my achievement, I 'm tired of listening to the icing on the cake, the flattery makes me feel excited, was: ' your succebecause you are in product positioning with Superman ability to identify ' the words, let me really excited for a long time."

当然，对男人成就的赞美也不一定只有用语言表达这一种，有时候，做一个聚精会神的倾听者，也会让他因被欣赏而沾沾自喜。

Of course, the achievements of man praise not only exprethat, sometimes, doing a concentrate one's attention on listener, also can let he was rather pleased with oneself to appreciate.

一位绅士

A gentleman

所谓风度，是男人在言谈举止中透出的一种味道。不要以为男人真的是散淡随意，潇洒不羁，其实他们是很在乎别人对自己举止的评价的。曾经有一位女友说起他和男友分手的原因，只因为她在一次朋友聚会上调侃了男友的局促，就大大伤了对方的自尊心，扔了句：“既然你认为我没风度，那么分开好了。”

What is the man in speech and deportment manners, with a taste. Do not think that men really are scattered at random, natural uninhibited, in fact they are very people care about their own behavior evaluation. I once had a girlfriend that he broke up with her boyfriend because, just because her friends at a party at her boyfriend's cramped, greatly hurt their self-esteem, throw the sentence:" if you think I didn't demeanor, then separate."

事实也如此，行动比语言更有说服力，只有当你对对方的举止言谈很满意、很欣赏时，你也才会爱上他。而在这方面赞美男人的聪明之道，也是拿他和别的男人比较，表现出你的欣赏。范文说：“有一次，我和女友乘出租车，下车后我替他打开车门，她说她以前遇到的男人从不知道什么是绅士风度。这句话极大地满足了我的自尊心，也让我觉得自己是个很受欢迎的男人。”

The fact is such also, actions speak louder than words, only when you on the other side of one's behavior and conversation is very satisfactory, appreciate, you will fall in love with him. In this regard, the wise man is to take a road, he and another man, show your appreciation. Fan said:" once, my girlfriend and I took a taxi, get off me he opened the door, she said that she had met a man never knows what a gentleman. It greatly satisfied my pride, also let me feel is a popular man."

仪表堂堂

Noble and dignified

许多男性承认，他们在关注女人闭月羞花的同时，也希望自己貌比潘安。

Many males admitted, they focus on woman beautiful at the same time, also want their appearance than Pan An.

但是同样因为社会角色定位，男人特别害怕女人把他们当作绣花枕头，因而他们对女人对他们外在形象的夸赞是特别敏感的，让女人兴奋的“你长得真漂亮”、“你穿得真好看”之类的话，会让男人觉得特别不舒服，在他的理解，这里透着一种嘲讽，好像说：“你有些娘娘腔，你怎么像女人一样爱打扮。”

But also because of the social role, man is particularly afraid of a woman to regard them as a pillow with an embroidered case, so they told women on their external image of praise is particularly sensitive to, let a woman" you look really beautiful"," you wear a nice " and so on, will allow a man to feel extremely uncomfortable, in his understanding, it shows a sarcastic, as if to say:" you are sissy, how do you like the woman loves to dreup."

所以说，要真的想对男人表达你对他外形的欣赏，还须审时度势，悠着点好。

So, to really want to man for you to expreappreciation to his appearance, size up the situation, take it easy.

最后，针对男人自视清高的心理，有一点你还须提醒自己，那就是永远不要对一个男人说，他长得像或做派像哪个名人，也许攀缘明星会让你信心倍增，但对男人而言，这是对他自尊心的侵犯。